Sunday, March 26, 2006

Proverbs 21:30

Hello and good morning!

Here's something for someone out here: "There is no wisdom, no insight and no plan that can succeed against the Lord" (Proverbs 21:30).

Meditate on that one. He is in control and nothing can thwart His plans for your life!

God is on your side. Chat with you later.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Vince Young to the Oilers?

I wonder if our friends at the Texans are secretly thinking, "So if we pass on Vince, he most likely goes to the Oilers in Nashville and we have to play against him twice a year? That's once a year in front of our own fans?"

If they're not thinking that, they should be! Nothing like a little added pressure to make things fun...draft day should be very interesting this year.

Good morning gorgeous. One day closer. I'm thinking about you!

Saturday, March 18, 2006

A strange e-mail, Modern Bride Magazine and Samson

A strange e-mail arrived in my inbox. The subject line read, "I'm looking at your future Wife."

This is obviously the type of email that gets my attention, so I opened it up. It's from an old friend (we'll call him Steve) who attends a church here in town. I haven't spoken with him in months.

From his Blackberry, he sent a very brief e-mail telling of a church function he was at and a female that was there. I laughed and thought, Now that's a pretty clever church recruitment tactic. Can you see that on a billboard?

"Visit Bill and Fred's Church of Fun. Your wife is here!"

I'm just kidding. Steve is a great Christian man from an excellent Bible-based church. His motives are pure. He's just playing around, keeping it real...

Let's get the obvious out of the way first -- Steve most likely has not identified my future wife.

However, this guy is pretty good at deciphering those things. Six years ago or so he took a woman he just met into a corner at a church singles event, and after a very brief discussion, he asked her if she was looking into the eyes of her husband. Her response?

"I think I am."

Today they have two beautiful children and are very happily married. I have no doubt in my mind now (although I had serious questions at the time) that it was God who brought them together.

Steve and his wife got lucky, right? That's not the way God works. It's supposed to be a process. How can someone look at someone else and make a determination like that?

Silly Samson. There's no question that he was a mighty man of God. But goodness, he was shallow...or was he?

Let's look at the first four verses of Judges 14.

1 Samson went down to Timnah. There in Timnah a woman caught his eye, a Philistine girl. 2 He came back and told his father and mother, "I saw a woman in Timnah, a Philistine girl; get her for me as my wife."

3 His parents said to him, "Isn't there a woman among the girls in the neighborhood of our people? Do you have to go get a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" But Samson said to his father, "Get her for me. She's the one I want--she's the right one."

4 (His father and mother had no idea that GOD was behind this...)

You've got to love Samson. He didn't even waste time saying "please." It was like, "I saw her, I like her, go get her."

Verse seven makes it clear that all this happened before he had even spoken to the girl. It's hard to believe God would actually be behind something that "irresponsible." The fact is that God placed the desire within him.

Maybe His ways are above our ways, after all.

Are there any other hopeless romantics out there? Anyone else believing God for something unusual? Out of the ordinary? Hoping God will arrange something spectacular! Do an Ephesians 3:20!!!!????

I've been trusting Him for it for years.

Sitting on the counter in the guest bathroom of my condominium is a copy of Modern Bride Magazine. I didn't put it there. My younger sister did when she stayed with me briefly right after she graduated from college. However, I've never removed it. That magazine has sat there for almost 18 months. Trista is on the cover and she is just GLOWING with joy!!

When I'm at a grocery store and pick up a magazine, I often start with a bridal magazine. It's been that way with me for years. I love the image of a woman in a wedding dress. I like to flip through and look at all the beautiful pictures.

On January 18 of this year the Houston Chronicle ran a photograph on the cover of a bride having her wedding pictures taken.

I ripped it out of the newspaper and it is taped to my computer at the office, along with a printout of Proverbs 18:22 which states: "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and receives favor from the Lord." That same scripture is on an index card, taped to my computer monitor here at home.

On the mirror in my bedroom are three things: the garder belt that I caught at my sister's wedding two years ago, the ticket stub to the Rockets-Grizzlies game I spoke about earlier in this blog (see Dec. 4), and an index card on which I have written, "You want it, she wants it." People have asked what that means. I explain it is a simple reminder every day to practice the spiritual disciplines today that will make me a better husband tomorrow. She will need me to be everything God has called me to be, and I want that more than I can tell you.

To me, my future wife is serious business. It's not a game. It's the cry of my heart.

It's interesting, because the Lord has used this desire in the past to communicate the passion and intensity of his love for me. The Bible often uses the "marriage" between a man and woman to typify the relationship Christ has with us, his church. I remember several years ago walking out on the jetties off of Seawall Boulevard in Galveston. I was extremely lonely, tired, disillusioned...I remember talking outloud to the Lord there as the waves smashed against the rocks. I said, "Lord, please bring her soon. I want to be with her soooo bad." He very lovingly spoke back inside of me, "Now you know how I feel."

I was taken aback. He was telling me that this longing, this incredible desire I had, was shared by Him. How He longs for that intimacy with us. We are loved passionately by God! If you have any question about the passion or excitement of God's love for us, take the time to read the Song of Solomon again. Many feel that is another reflection, or picture, of Christ's love for His bride.

One of the beautiful things about serving God is that He always uses our times of discomfort to teach us something. In this case, I have always equated that incredible desire to see my wife come down the isle on our wedding day with how he longs to stand face to face with me -- and you -- on that day. And, how he longs for intimacy with us even here on planet Earth. If I had married at 22 (and there is certainly nothing wrong with that), I wouldn't have experienced this in the same way.

Now when I'm incredibly lonely and wishing I could spend time with her, I try to turn it around and see how bad He desires to spend time with me. And you.

I have played the moment I meet her over and over in my mind. When I meet my wife, I will have done it already countless times in my imagination. I tell her on this blog how nuts I am about her, even though I have no real guarantee the one God has for my future is reading it. I try to live my life in the realm of faith, which means I believe all of God's promises are already there, I just haven't walked into them all yet.

Back in the day, that type of faith was commended (read Hebrews 11). Today, like then, it could get you laughed at.

But you know what? I'd rather believe with everything in me, step out of the boat and miss it a little bit (or a lot), than to take a chance of not experiencing everything God has because I'm too scared to believe for something amazing.

My hope and prayer is that each of you reading this believes the same way.

So, having said all this...To my gorgeous Princess, wherever you are, know this: I have a lot of love bottled up inside of me for you, and I will do everything I can to love you like He loves the church. That's not only His command, it is something I'm excited about and looking forward to doing.

Angel, God has put a very powerful, very real desire for you deep within me.

And we're one day closer to His perfect time...

I'll post in the morning

It is the middle of the night in H-Town. I should definately be sleeping -- and I am confident that will happen momentarily.

What a wacky week.

I have constructed a long post that I will probably place here tomorrow, after I have a chance to read it over again. Are you like that? Sometimes you want to have a good night's rest and another read-over before you publish it. Me too. Especially this time of the morning. Who knows what I wrote this time.

I think it was about a strange e-mail I received and Modern Bride Magazine and Samson. Wow. If that is really what it's about I may change my mind about posting it. Let me re-read tomorrow.

Please stay tuned for more fun.

Thursday, March 16, 2006

OK, who threw the crackers on my patio?

"My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work." (John 4:34)

Good morning, warriors!

OK, who threw the crackers on my patio? Cute! I can't eat them. Bugs got to them before I could. I had to throw them out. Please make any future food deliveries to my front door. I go out that door more frequently and will find it sooner.

Today should be fun. After a full day at The Methodist Hospital, I am going to dinner with my siser, Jennifer, my brother-in-law, and their baby girl (my niece) Hailey (remind me to tell the cool story about Hailey here sometime) this evening after work. Jennifer, I'll leave work and head straight over there.

My intention was to start posting again more frequently last night after church, but I got home late and was worn out. Pastor Marcos preached...it was excellent. He is doing a series with Lisa and Dr. Paul on Wednesday night on the miracles of Jesus.

Is it my imagination or is the Wednesday night crowd growing?? Praise God!

Liz, cheeseburger song please for top 10. I guess I have to email to vote. I like that one. The one about the hairbrush isn't quite as good.

Talk to you all later.

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

I can't wait to look into those gorgeous eyes

I can't wait to look into those gorgeous eyes...

More posts are coming soon, friends, neighbors and beautiful princess!

It's late or I'd type more now.